Your work is
not your life.
I remember a
manager once telling me that no one is indispensable in the workplace. Many
companies believe this, and it’s important for us to internalize this
perspective!
Becoming efficient
at work may take time, but once you reach that point, you might start feeling
like you’re irreplaceable. You could begin to think that the company can’t
function properly without you, that your work is crucial, and that the business
would suffer without your contribution. This mindset could start affecting your
personal life: you might consider skipping holidays or neglecting your family
and your own needs.
Remember,
you’re just an employee and your work doesn’t define you. Finding
fulfillment in doing a good job and being recognized for your efforts should be
rewarding in itself. It’s important not to overestimate your own contribution –
that would be egocentric bias. Many of your colleagues are working hard and
adding value too.
So, don’t
fall into the trap of thinking that you are a “one-man show” and that
work is everything! Some people argue that life itself is an illusion. Don’t
let yourself create an illusion within a bigger illusion. Take the time to
appreciate the beauty around you. Enjoy non-work related activities and the
company of personal friends. Live your authentic life by doing what truly
brings you joy!